While 8-10s use social media in a playful, creative way – often to play games – this changes significantly as children’s social circles expand as they grow older. This report shows that many Year 7 children are finding social media hard to manage and becoming over-dependent on ‘likes’ and ‘comments’ for social validation. They are also adapting their offline behaviour to fit an online image, and becoming increasingly anxious about ‘keeping up appearances’ as they get older.
Children are also becoming “increasingly anxious” about their online image and ‘keeping up appearances’ as they get older. This phenomenon is made worse, the report adds, when pupils begin to follow celebrities.
The report picks out social media such as Instagram and Snapchat, which it says can “undermine children’s view of themselves by making them feel inferior to the people they follow”.
The research also warns of an increase in the social pressure that children feel to be constantly connected at the expense of other activities.
Main Findings:
- Across all ages, the most popular social media were Snapchat, Instagram, Musical.ly and WhatsApp. Younger children had less routine around when they accessed social media, while older children started to get into the habit of using all their social media apps multiple times a day, and for some, it had come to dominate their day
- Children knew how to cheer themselves up or calm themselves down using social media, from getting funny Snapchats from a friend to watching slime videos on Instagram. It allowed children to be creative and play games, two things that appealed to children from a very young age
- Parents and schools had successfully ingrained messages in children about online safety from known risks such as predators and strangers. Yet children were less aware of how to protect themselves from other online situations that could affect their mood and emotions
- Younger children were particularly influenced by their family’s views and usage of social media, and parents may be unaware of how their use of social media affects their child
- Parents sometimes gave children contradictory safety messages when they let children use their social media accounts, and unknowingly exposed them to unsuitable content.
- Many children felt uncomfortable and bothered by their parents posting pictures of them on social media, yet felt they could do little to stop it
- Children learned how to do new things on social media from their older siblings, but were also put off by things that their siblings had experienced. In some cases, children worried about their siblings’ behaviour online, such as excessive use and ignoring safety messages.
- Social media was important for maintaining relationships, but this got trickier to manage at secondary school, where friendships could break down online.
- Children used social media as a tool to maintain friendships, and they recognised the value of face-to-face interactions for more serious conversations, like discussing worries and resolving arguments
- Younger children were more likely to see mean comments from strangers on apps like Roblox, whereas older children, who were communicating with a greater number of people on group chats, faced issues and confusion around the blurring of ‘jokes’ that were posted publicly
- Children are conscious of keeping up appearances on social media, particularly when they start secondary school, and identity and seeking peer approval become more important
- Despite talking about the importance of ‘staying true to yourself’ and being authentic on social media, girls were worried about looking ‘pretty’ and boys were more concerned with looking ‘cool’ and having the right clothing.
- When children started to follow celebrities and people outside their close family and friends, many became aware of how they looked compared to other people on social media, and felt that comparisons were unattainable.
- Children felt good when they got ‘likes’ and ‘comments’ from friends, and some Year 7 children were starting to become dependent on them, using techniques to guarantee they would get a high number of ‘likes’.
- Children started to see offline activities through a ‘shareable lens’ based on what would look the best on social media.
- Social media could inspire children and help them learn about new things
- Some children developed new aspirations about what they wanted their future to be like and copied things they saw on social media Some children actively gathered information on social media platforms like YouTube and Instagram, and were exposed to ‘news’ via celebrities and ‘explore/discover’ pages.
Recommendations:
- Broaden digital literacy education beyond safety messages, to develop children’s critical awareness and resilience and understanding of algorithms, focusing on the transition stage from primary to secondary school.
- Inform parents about the ways in which children’s social media use changes with age, particularly on entry to secondary school, and help them support children to use social media in a positive way, and to disengage from it.
- Improve teachers’ knowledge about the impacts of social media on children’s wellbeing and encourage peer-to-peer learning
- Recognise the needs of children under 13 who are using their platforms and incorporate them in service design or do more to address underage use.
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Life In ‘Likes’: Children’s Commissioner Report Into Social Media Use Among 8 -12 Year Olds